That’s the question I was asked by my psychologist on Monday (not Daisy) and this is something I have thought about before, but haven’t like sat with it you know?
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and that people enter and exit our lives when it’s meant to be and for a reason.
I started all this social media business because I want to make a change and impact lives, even if it’s one. And once my psychologist asked me “how long do you want to be remembered and for what” I was like this, this is how I want to be remembered.
I want people to think of me as an average girl that wants to make a change, a girl that has beeeen through it but has worked on herself, a girl that radiates positivity and kindness. A girl that you can open up to and speak to without fear or judgement. I want to be that girl and so much more. And I want to be remembered as that for as long as possible.
And I know I can do it, and I want you to know that you can too. Life is hard and it throws us with so much stuff but it’s what we do with it that matters. Turn a negative into a positive, and don’t worry about how long that is going to take you, look forward to the destination.
Be grateful. I’ve been through some crap in my life and I used to cry and think why me? But it’s all happening for a reason, I am meant to tell a story and inspire others, to encourage others to hold on. Because let me tell you… life was very very dark a few months ago and I am so so happy that I held on, because now I see the light and the beauty in all things and I welcome challenges into my life because I know it will make me stronger.
My message to you today is to hold on. Please hold on. Whatever you are going through WILL get better, it must. Look at your life, reflect, and let go of what is holding you back… and it might be easy for me to say that, but trust me. Instead of looking at all the crappy things, look at the good and take it in and embrace it and hold onto it.
Life is crazy with it’s twists and turns but I believe in you, I believe that you will come out stronger and happier than ever. If you feel like you need someone to talk too, I am all ears.
Until next time my lovely souls, remember that you are loved!
xx